Hey all,
Before I go on, let me say that what has happened in Aurora, Colorado sickened me to my very soul. It made me weep for those who lost their lives and for those heartbroken family members that were left behind. I wanted to do permanent damage to the gunman, yet I felt for his parents and what they must be going through.
I won't blog specifically about this horrible affair. So many others have done it and probably better than I would. I've read several blogs, seen the news articles and memorials on FaceBook, and I know that it made a tremendous impact on many people, both in the United States and the world.
But I couldn't help being bothered by the fact that the politicians, while they too might have been horrified, used this as a platform to tout their different views. Gun control vs the right to bear arms seems to be the hot topic and everyone is jumping on one bandwagon or another.
The fact that the man was looney-tunes doesn't seem to be as important as what he used to do the deed. And I firmly believe that if he hadn't been able to find a gun, he'd have still massacred those people, albeit differently. Crazy people will find a way to make their fantasy a reality. So leave the politics of gun control out of it. Use your time and energy in a wiser way. Help the victims...help the town.
I was pleased, but it didn't surprise me that both Romney and Obama pulled their ads in Colorado. While I'd like to believe the sensitive gesture was because they are two great guys, more likely they (or their campaign people) saw the political value in keeping their usual campaign nastiness away from a grieving town.
But just think... If you pull an advertisement because it may be negative and insensitive, why are you doing the ad in the first place?
Call me cynical, but I'm pretty sure no matter how despicable the tragedy, a politician always measures his emotions and words before he says them. And using this episode as a way to get airtime makes a politician as much of a bad guy as the dude who pulled the trigger.
Instead, make a simple statement and then SHUT UP!!! Let the newsies focus on the ones who died. Not some politician hoping to score a few extra votes by showing how sorry he is that it happened.
I know he's the president, but I have to say it bothered me that Obama is going to go visit the families of those who died. I thought about it long and hard when I read the news. I know I wouldn't want him anywhere near me if I was a family member. For several reasons...
One) I'm grieving. I just lost someone I loved. President or not, he's a stranger. Someone I don't know and who sure as hell doesn't know me. I don't need to play hostess to the leader of the free world when I'm going through something like this. I truly doubt any of them are going to feel all better about losing a loved one just because Obama visited them.
Two) Having him go to Aurora turns the world's attention towards him and away from what should be more important. Those who died. So why is he there? Politically motivated? You bet!

Three) Does he visit other murder victim's families? Why are these heartbroken and suffering people people more important than, for example, the family of Russell Sneiderman who was killed in 2010 in Georgia by another crazy person minutes after dropping his son off at daycare. Is it the number who died? The horrifying venue? The innocence lost? Or could it be it's just more newsworthy?
Do I sound disgusted? You bet I am. I'm disgusted with the politicians who are using this heartbreaking event for themselves. I'm disgusted with the media who are like ravening wolves, scenting fresh blood and hoping for the right angle to show how the candidates are reacting. And finally, I'm disgusted with people who will spout off with negative words about the victims, the families (both victim's and the perpetrator's) and the town as if this tragedy was their fault.
I'm not naive. I know that neither Romney or Obama could or even should ignore this. But how they handled it was a test of the kind of men they were. How many of their kind and generous words were from the heart and how much were written by their speech writers? Did they sit down with their campaign people and take a poll on what to do, or did they just do what they thought was right?
And most importantly, did they think of the victims and their families as they made their decisions on how to act, or did they think about how they'd look while doing it?
James Freeman Clarke said it better than I ever could...
A politician thinks of the next election. A statesman, of the next generation.
Makes you wonder just what Obama, Romney and other politicians are thinking of, doesn't it?
Okay...rant over. Let me know what you think in the comment section.
I'll lighten things up a bit on Friday when I share some great summer dessert recipes.
Hugs,
CJ England
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