Welcome to Stumblers Anonymous

Hey all,

I hope you're enjoying the last bit of winter. Or is it the last bit?  I guess it depends where you live.  I've been told some of you are seeing signs of spring, while others are still trapped in the grip of winter.  

I guess winter can be a time of learning and research.  It was when I was living in the US, there in northern Idaho.  The winters in the panhandle can be long, hard and snowy, so diving into my writing was easy to do.

And research.  One of my favorite things to do.  In fact, a lot of my stories came from ideas gleaned during research instead of the other way around.  I'd head online to find out an answer to a research question and find myself distracted about something else entirely.  Those damn links.  *sigh*  I'd see one, click on it and zooooom.....off I'd go into an idea I'd never thought of before.

So much fun.

One of my favorite places to get ideas is a link my daughter turned me on to.  She sent me the information several years ago and I loved it.  When I have time to "waste", that's where I go.  I can look at beautiful photographs, get new recipes, learn how to make a chandelier out of an old map or learn a new yoga pose for my health.  And where can I do all this in one place?

Have you ever Stumbled?

I swear, this place is totally addicting.  Once I start, I can't stop.  If you've never been on Stumble Upon, you're really missing a treat.  You can find EVERYTHING, there.  And I mean EVERYTHING.  What is it?  Well, Wikipedia describe it thusly...

StumbleUpon is a discovery engine (a form of web search engine) that finds and recommends web content to its users. Its features allow users to discover and rate Web pages, photos, and videos that are personalized to their tastes and interests using peer-sourcing and social-networking principles.

 Sometimes I wonder about how they decide what I like.  The way it works is this...  You press the "stumble" button and it takes you randomly to a website.  If it's one that you really like, you press the thumbs up icon...if you're not so impressed, the thumbs down.  And the site records your likes and dislikes and chooses websites it thinks you'll enjoy.

Most of the time it works, other times I just scratch my head and think, hmmm...

For example, I'm an author, so I often get pages on that topic.  I also love crafting, nature, travel and critters, so I get those.  But every once in a while I get page after page of really odd links.  Stuff I'd never go to on my own.

Most of those I just Stumble though--ignore and go to the next one--but every once in a while a new topic will jump out at me and boom, just like that I've got a new interest.   And quite often a very cool new idea for a book.

Just the other day I found a great site by stumbling.  Since some of my new work is more suspense oriented, this site--as gruesome as it is--gave me some great ideas on how to murder someone!  LOL  Interested?  Go check it out HERE.

I've found some awesome ideas on how to decorate my home on this search engine.  I swear I think we need to buy three houses to use them all.  This one is one of my favorites.  Take a look HERE.

Or, another fun site I would have never looked up on my own is a hoot.  Jonathon and I adore the ride Splash Mountain at Disneyworld.  But we would have never thought about doing something like THIS.

And finally, there are those amusing sites that are nothing but a hilarious waste of time.  And we all need something like that every once in a while.  Can you say, MEEYOW?  (Don't forget to hit the rain button!)

Anyway, once you check the site out, you'll see why it's so addicting.  There is something for everyone.  Want a recipe for the best brownies on the planet?  You'll find it stumbling.  Want to know which Greek god used a lightning bolt?  Stumble can be the answer.  And if you just need a cute animal fix, you can definitely find in on Stumble Upon.

So what are you waiting for?  Stumble on over and see what you can find.  Trust me, once you do you'll be joining me at Stumblers Anonymous!!!!

Have a great week!!!

Hugs,

CJ England

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Signage Humor - From Street Signs to Store Fronts

Hey all,

How have things been going for you all this week?  Mine has been a busy one, what with a day of museum hopping, visiting the artist's fair, organizing files for taxes, writing, and to end up the week, a fun night out for Saint Patrick's Day.

We always do something special, ever since we found ourselves in Ireland on the big day, sitting in a pub and singing "Whiskey in the Jar" with the locals.  We've tipped our glasses to the Irish in Singapore, Macau, Amsterdam, Sao Paulo, and now here in Porto Alegre.  We always have a blast and meet new friends while doing it.  It does make for an interesting night, I promise you.  As you can see in the picture, this time we went all out.  Funny hats and shirts.  Add some Irish whiskey and Murphy's Stout and it's a perfect way to celebrate the day!!!

Speaking of funny, I thought it was time to do a blog about funny signs again.  I haven't done it for awhile, so I've got quite a few collected.  Different from the ones in Europe, some of these are funny, some are head-scratchers and others are just bloody interesting.  So I hope you enjoy this look at funny signage in Brazil.

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One of the oddest things I've found here in Brazil is the fact when you use toilet paper (for the obvious reasons) you DON'T toss it into the toilet.  Most places have a waste basket in the stall to toss the used paper into.  It's stinky--especially in the summer--but they still do it.  Sewage problems is my only thought, but to an American????  Yuck!  And since we're not used to it, they have signs in places where foreigners frequent.

Really?  This is what you came up with to name your little kiosk?  This sits in Rio de Janeiro on the famous Copacabana beach.  It's a common little restaurant, but each time I'd see one, I get this picture of a little kids screaming, "I've got to go Potty!!!!!!"

Talk about obvious!  This is a motel AND it's just what you think.  A motel by the hour.  And while we may hide what these types of motels are in other countries, here in Belo Horizonte, they announce it proudly.  They even have drive-in LOVE hotels.  I kid you not.  Drive in, do your business and then drive out.  Who said Brazilians aren't efficient?  :-)

Okay, so this was as sign Jonathon found in Curitiba.  In a men's bathroom.  While in reality it admonishes the guy's to keep the urinal clean, if you're a guy, the word "limpo" staring at you while you're doing your business can have a detrimental effect!  LOL

This sign in Sao Paulo makes you stop dead in your tracks, doesn't it?  Actually, the word means "tired", but to name a store this, just makes me giggle.  Not sure I'd shop there.  I think the smells would totally put me off !

This confusing sign was in one of the hotels we visited in Sao Paulo.  Maybe they got their design from Willie Wonka or Gringotts.  It wasn't a glass elevator, but I really wanted to see if it went to the left as promised.  *sigh*  It didn't.

I'm used to seeing these signs just outside of Amish country.  Places where they'd prefer horse and buggies not go.  They are rare and not often seen.  But here in Porto Alegre and other southern cities of Brazil, they are commonplace.  Horses are used a lot to transport goods in the city.  But they aren't allowed on the freeway.  Go figure!

This one tickled me.  There are taxi signs everywhere, that's not the funny part, but to have a volkswagon as a taxi?  Now THAT isn't so common.  Meep Meep!!!!!

And finally, one of the oldest pubs in Porto Alegre, it was inspired by the bohemian writer, Charles Bukowski and is a favorite of locals and tourists alike.  

Me?  I just like the name.  *snicker*

 

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There you have it.  A look at some of the great signs across Brazil.  I have many, many more, but maybe I'll put those up another time!  Of course, by that time I'll be in Argentina and who knows WHAT I'll find there!  LOL

Until next week...

Hugs,

CJ England

 

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Wine Is Bottled Poetry

Hey all,

The title is a quote from the amazing author, Robert Louis Stevenson.  And it's true.  Even though I'm not a big wine drinker, I've learned that some wine is poetry, while others are more like a ugly limerick!  LOL

Like many other countries, Brazilian wines are a hit and miss overall.  We've discovered a few great ones (Vinhos Durigan from the Saint Teresa neighborhood in Curitiba) and we've tasted some mediocre ones.  But coming here to Porto Alegre, we discovered we were only a couple hours from the best wine country in South America.  So of course, we had to visit.

And we had an amazing time.

The Vale dos Vinhedos (Valley of the Vineyards) is the area where most of the wines are made.  It's nearby the town of Bento Goncalves and the whole area is rich in beauty and history.  We visited for two days and could have easily spent several more.

There are two main areas to see.  One, where the majority of the Vineyards are is the Vale dos Vinhedos and the second, an area which traces the path of the early settlers of the area--Italian--is called the Caminhos de Pedra (the Path of Stone).  Both areas are absolutely beautiful.  Verdant valleys with gorgeous architecture and rolling grape-covered hills.  There are wineries, historical homes and cottage industries with some wonderful food and crafts.  There is even a working sheep farm that I loved visiting.  More about that later.

Anyway, the first day we spent driving through the Vale dos Vinhedos.  There are dozens of wineries dotting the valley, some small and intimate, a couple of others quite large.  There are those that sell only out of their small vineyards, but many are actually award winners and are distributed all over the world.  It's difficult to visit without buying something, so we came home with a trunk full of truly delicious wines.  

But for me it's the beauty of the area.  The canopies of vines that line the rolling hills.  The beautiful wineries, each with their unique flavor and look.  The amazing restaurants with some of the best Italian food I've had since visiting Italy.  The views are incredible, almost as wonderful as the wines we tasted.  See what I mean.

The next day was even better as far as I was concerned.  The Caminhos de Pedra has a little bit of everything.  Vineyards, impressive historical homes, cottage industries with items including meats, cheeses, tomato wine, clothing, pasta, and so much more.

We drove through this area, stopping at all the different places you can visit.  We watched candy being made, tasted more wine, stopped at an old homestead where salami was made, and went to a great bakery where the pies were being baked right in front of us.  The scent was amazing, and we had to get some.  But there were three places I loved the most.

One was called the Cantina Strapazzon.  It was a small family vineyard with some truly delicious wines.  But even better was the fresh baked traditional Italian bread produced in an outdoor brick oven.  It was made by a lovely lady by the name of Grandma Gemma.  She had the sweetest smile and set some bread aside especially for us when she saw how intrigued I was by the whole process.

Next was a farm I was so looking forward to seeing.  It was called the Casa da Ovelha (House of Sheep) and is a working sheep ranch.  But not for wool.  For milk.  Yep, that's right.  Three hundred sheep a day are milked there, and another 1500 are milked elsewhere and the milk shipped to Cas da Ovelha.  Cheese, yogurt, ice cream (yum) and other milk products are made here and are absolutely delicious.  We were able to do many activities on the farm including feeding the lambs, watching a border collie run the sheep and help with the milking.  Brenda, the border collie was amazing to watch and we got to taste fresh sheep's milk.  And it was absolutely delicious!  Even warm out of the teat!  Overall, it was an amazing place.  Check it out!

 One of my favorite things to do is feed baby lambs.  Did it a hundred times on our own farm, and I hadn't realized how much I missed interacting with the little ones.

 Don't I look cool in my lunch lady hat?  LOL  Milking sheep was a new experience.  I've milked goats and cows, but other than getting a new born lamb started, I've never really milked a ewe before.

Brenda was amazing.  I fell in love immediately.  Got my puppy fix loving on her after she did her work.  Made me miss my Ares so much!

And lastly, we visited something uniquely Brazilian.  An Erva-Mate mill.  Erva-Mate is a tree/weed (I think more like an herb) that people drink here in Brazil, Uruguay and Argentina.  It was first discovered by the indiginous indians, but you can see people drinking it all over the area.  In parks and just walking down the street.  VERY common.  

I won't go in how to make this special brew--you can check it out HERE.  But it's fun to do and delicious.  While most just drink it on their own, it's original use was communal.  One cup passed around a group of people.  

We were shown around by the son of the family, Paulo Ferrari (yes, just like the car) and he showed us how to properly make the tea and drink it.  

I hadn't had it before, but I loved the taste.  Think of a really strong black tea and that's close.  It's excellent for the digestion and we had to get some, it was so wonderful.

By the time we left Paulo, we were losing the light.  We wandered back along the Caminhos de Pedra and then headed back to Porto Alegre, happy and satisfied by one of the most amazing adventures we've had.  I heartly recommend this area to anyone who visits Porto Alegre.  

Wine, good food and great people.  A perfect weekend, and one I'll never forget.

Until next week...

Hugs,

CJ England

 

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Hugs,

Welcome to Gaucho Country!!!

Hey all,

We've been in Porto Alegre now for just about a week, and so far, we're liking it a lot.  The town is very European in it's architecture, and the countryside is beautiful and verdant.  The coastline is pretty, too and much warmer than in Rio.  But, no one swims here.  The beaches are a little dirty, and we've been told polluted.  Too bad.  We'd have loved to actually swim in a WARM sea.  LOL

We did some day trips the first couple days since Jonathon was off.  We rented a car when we got into the airport and then headed out.  Like I mentioned, we went up the coast for a while, and saw several beaches.  In a couple of places we saw statues of sea goddesses looking out over the water.  One was called Iemanja (we've heard of her before), but also a new goddess by the name of Oxum.  I'd never heard of her before, so I looked her up.  

She is considered to be the goddess of the "sweet water".  Of love and harmony.  She is worshiped more by women than men, and is considered to be generous and kind.  BUT, it's also said she has a horrific temper and when she lets loose--like a storm at sea--she can cause untold destruction.

We did stop at one beach and put our feet in the water.  The sand on the beach was soft and squeaky but the water was dirty looking.  It didn't stop a fisherman from going into the water to fish.  But not to his knees or even his thighs.  This guy wouldn't need waders...not when he was up to his shoulders in the surf.  I have a video--can't upload it--still have too slow of a connection--so a picture will have to do.  I wonder if the flowers we saw strewn on the beach helped him catch something???

The next day we traveled up to Nova Petropolis.  A quaint little town in the mountains above Porto Alegre.  It was raining like crazy, but we decided to go anyway.  Getting a bit wet couldn't stop us.  And we had a great time.  The forest around us smelled great--so fresh and new, and the city itself, the stopping place for many German immigrants--was quite interesting.  There was a beautiful city square filled with gorgeous flowers and a maze we had a blast going through.

Then we visited Parque Aldeia do Imigrante (Immigrant Park), an area where the history of the German immigrants of the area was shown.  It had shops and restaurants and a reconstructed colonial village showing how people lived and worked in the village between 1870 and 1910.

It had a schoolhouse, a small museum, a beautiful little church and several other buildings that made up this pretty little area.  There was also a big lake that looked amazing in the misty rain.

The best part of the trip was the scenery.  Even with the mist in the mountains you could tell it was a beautiful area.  We plan to go back and do several road trips.  One called the "Romantic Road"--we did one in Germany, so have to do one here!--and the other, the Rue de Vinho (the wine road).  That one we're going to do  on our next long weekend AND visit wine country.  But that's a story for another blog!  

Anyway, I think we're going to like it here.  The downtown historic area is beautiful and the river and nearby lake seem to be happening places.  We're looking forward to seeing everything there is to see in this last city of Brazil.  I'll let you know if I find anything worth blogging about!

I'll see you all next week when I'll have a blog about tasting wine...Brazilian style!!!

Hugs,

CJ England

 

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A Day of Truth and Opportunity

Hey all,

As you read this, I'll be in the middle of our move to Port Alegre, Brazil.  We're very much looking forward to this new city.  

While we've loved Rio for the beaches, food and view from our hotel, the rest hasn't been so good.  The cost, the distance into the city where all the main attractions are and the complete and total sucky internet here make me glad to leave.  I'd come back for another visit, but like the other towns we've stayed in, I now know how to make my stay here more enjoyable.

One of the things I'd do differently is volunteer my time.  Where you ask?  Somewhere I wouldn't have ever thought of doing two months ago.

The Rochina Favela.

I know, I know.  If you know what a favela is (if you don't, read up on what it is HERE) you think I'm crazy to do such a thing.  After all, don't the news reports say they are dangerous, and if a tourist goes in they will be attacked, robbed, beaten and a myriad of other horrible things?

We were told all those things when we first came into Rio.  Warned that going into a favela would be tantamount to signing your own death warrant.  And to be honest, it scared most of us to death.

But, you know me.  I'm nothing if not curious.  And since our hotel literally sat at the bottom of the biggest favelas in Rio (and Brazil), each time I walked outside and looked up at the thousands of unique homes on the hillside, I wondered if it really could be as horrible as everyone seemed to think.

So, I decided to find out for sure.  I did my research and found there were several tours to take you into a favela.  All of them touted how safe it would be.  Most promised vehicles and enough men (some even with weapons) to keep you protected on your journey.

But I didn't want to travel through the favela like it was a safari and the people of the community were animals to stare at.  That just seemed rude.  So I continued my searching and discovered a smaller tour run by Zezinho, an actual resident of the favela.  His website spoke of a different type of tour where you walked through the favela, exploring the alleys, streets, businesses and homes of the residents.

That seemed much more like what I wanted to do.  Really get to know the favela and find out the truth about the area as a whole.  I don't like being afraid of anything, and I hoped this tour would show me the reality about this community of 300,000 people.

So, I contacted Zezinho (pictured here) and together with several of my Cirque friends, we girded our loins and traveled into the heart of Rochina.

I have to admit, I expected at least a little of what I'd read about.  Horrible housing conditions and poverty, drug dealers on every corner, cops and machine guns in the streets and nasty mean people waiting to rob, rape and kill outsiders. 

But that isn't what I saw.  While the homes aren't what we may be used to, they are usually clean and as well cared for as possible.  They are unique and most aren't the horrible shacks of the news reports, just small cottages or huts without all the frills and decorations a Westerner might think necessary.  Some are in better shape than others, but most of them fit together in an interesting and almost artistic way.

We saw no obvious drug dealers or crime while we were there, and in all honesty, I was more afraid of the mean looking cops wandering around with their big guns than the residents.  Actually, the people I walked by or were introduced to were some of the nicest I've met since I came to Rio.

Now, before everyone thinks I believe it's all roses and lollipops there, they do have some serious problems.  They may lose electricity for days on end or the water supply may suddenly disappear.  There are garbage problems and a few open sewers.  Schools are overcrowded and children must be bused outside the community to get an education.

There is poverty and the monthly wage earned by a native of Rochina is FAR less than someone who lives out of the area.    Rent may be A LOT cheaper there, but since you don't make as much, it balances out.  And from what I heard (and researched) the government treats the community like a poor orphaned step-child.  They receive little if any money for special programs and what little they have is often taken away at the drop of a hat. 

Is it any wonder there is a flourishing drug industry in the favela?

A couple of days before I visited, there was a shootout between drug dealers and the military police.  There were deaths and a transformer was shot out in the melee.  And yes, that is scary.  But most of the residents have a live and let live policy.  They look at drugs as another business and while they may not like it as much as the neighborhood pharmacy, those who sell drugs often contribute to the community.  I was told that there are more drug sales going on outside the favela in Copagabana or Ipanema beach than in the favela itself.  Perhaps all of this is why the drug industry is, in a way, accepted.

But while the news reports may focus mainly on this problem, there is so much more to Rochina.  There is compassion and love and those working together for the greater good.  Community programs to teach children to succeed.  Specific schools so the kids can make something of themselves.  Food banks and neighbor helping neighbor.  Artists of all kinds.  Businesses, restaurants, medical centers.  It's a community of people with rules and regulations who want to govern themselves.  Who want to live and succeed and enjoy each day to the fullest. 

So just how is that any different than any other community or neighborhood in the world?

I learned a lot during my tour, and if I'm ever given the chance to visit Rio again with Cirque, I'll spend less of my time on the beach and at the pool, and more in this vibrant, interesting community.  I'll wander the alleys and streets and enjoy the people I meet.  I'll volunteer at the program center, the samba school or DJ school.  I'll teach English or help out at the vet's office.  So many things to do and look forward to.

All in a place I'd never expected to fall in love with.

Rochina!!!!!!

Until Next Friday when I'll have a quick look at my newest city....Port Alegre!!!!

Hugs to all!

CJ England

 

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Is It a Taxi Ride or the Indianapolis 500?

Hey all,

Today's blog is about risk.  That's right.  Risk.  What is life without it?  Monotonous, uninteresting, downright dull.  I believe life is an adventure and sometimes it takes a bit of risk to make it more exciting.

In fact, I've often thought a small daily dose of risk makes living more fun.  When you get up in the morning do you consider getting out of bed risky?  Or, are you on the other end of the scale and wonder whether your morning risky undertaking will be paragliding or diving with great white sharks?

Most of us play somewhere in the middle.  We choose when and where to take risks.  But I've learned that sometimes risks can't be planned.

Risks choose you.

Now as you know, I've traveled extensively.  And in traveling I've used planes, cars, trains and even scooters to get me where I want to go.  Yet overall, it's public transportation that I use the most.  And each time I do, I take my life into my hands.

Seriously.  I've used motorcycle taxis in Thailand and prayed I'd make it as the driver weaved drunkenly through the traffic.  

I've held on with both hands and choked back a silent scream as the bus drivers in Macau went around curves literally on two wheels.  

And I've ridden with my mouth open in shock as we bucked and farted through Cambodia on the back of a Tuk-Tuk.

When I was a young woman, I did a music tour through Europe and spent some time in Italy.  It was one of my first times out of the USA and since I was from a small town, I'd been in a taxi only a couple of times.  So NOTHING prepared me for the adventure of driving in a taxi down the small streets of Naples.

I was terrified.  All I can remember was grabbing on to my boyfriend Rick as the taxi went hurtling down one of the roads--aka--alleys.  The buildings were so close to my door that I could have reached out and touched them.  But that wouldn't have been so bad except the taxi was going at least fifty miles an hour at the time.

I'm not kidding.  And so one terrifying taxi ride was my yardstick against any other scary mode of transportation I'd undertaken.

Until now.

Brasilian taxi drivers are an experience.  An adventure.  In fact, I think that if you looked up extreme sports, you'd find "riding in a Brasilian taxi" one of the top ten.  :-)  And here in Rio de Janeiro, the taxi drivers are the best of the best (also known as the scariest of the scariest).

Each time--and I do mean each time--I get in a cab here, I know it's going to be terrifying.  I've decided Rio taxi drivers are either the best drivers on the planet...or the worst.  Defensive driving isn't in their vocabulary.  Offensive driving is the way of the world down here.

Weaving through other traffic, driving EXTREMELY fast, cutting each other off, driving EXTREMELY fast, passing on the right, driving EXTREMELY fast, using the sidewalk to get around a slower car (seriously...it happened), driving EXTREMELY fast, stopping in the middle of traffic to pick up a fare and oh, did I mention?  Driving EXTREMELY fast?

Riding in a taxi in Rio IS an extreme sport.  I've learned to close my eyes and dream, otherwise I'd be so stressed by the time I get there, I'd collapse on the pavement and kiss the ground in relief that I'd made it in one piece.  Honestly, I've never been so scared of doing something in my life.  And since the only other way to get there is on a bus (which takes FOREVER here) or walk, we don't have much choice.

Yet, I haven't seen any accidents involving taxis.  So I guess that means they ARE good at what they do.  But, no matter how good they are, I have to admit I'll be happy to leave here.

A person can take just so much risk in their lives.  And since I plan to go diving with great whites someday, I don't want to use up all my good karma before that happens!

Have an interesting story involving taxis?  Share it in the comments below!

Hugs and see you next Friday...

CJ England

 

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50 Hot Valentine’s Day Date Night Ideas

Hey all,

Well, it's that special day!  One of my faves.  I'm always excited to find out what Jonathon has in store for me.  I'm easy to buy for.  I love jewelry, chocolate, clothes, chocolate, books, chocolate and a myriad of other things.  Especially chocolate.  :-)

He's not so easy.  I have to really pull out all the stops to make sure I find something for him that he'll be happy with.  I usually wind up getting all super creative and doing something different to tell my sweet baboo I love him.

Over the years I've searched out and found several fun ideas to make Valentine's Day special, so I thought I'd share my top ten favorites with my readers.  Some sweet...some sorta spicey.  So give them a shot.  And have a good time sharing them with your own sweet baboo (or babooette)!

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1.  Watch the Sunrise.  Sure you’ve seen the sunset together, but have you checked out how spectacular a sunrise is in the winter? You’ll have to wake up early and bundle up, but it’s so worth it. Besides, you can always crawl back into bed and cuddle afterward.  (My favorite part.)

2.  Play A Game!  a) Truth or Dare.  Begin with each of you writing out five dares -- anything from trying on a sexy outfit to something naughty like stripping -- on separate pieces of paper. Place them in a bowl. Now take turns asking each other naughty questions such as, "What's the sexiest fantasy you've ever had?" or "What's the most unusual place you've ever wanted to have sex?" If you don't answer, you have to dip into the pot and select a dare.  

b) Play Three-Card Stud. You provide the stud. What’s the game? The loser bares all, and the winner sees all.  

e) Naked Twister.  It's a classic for a reason.  Pull out your naughty inner child and get limber with your honey. 

d) Play Three Things.  Each think of three sexual things you've always wanted to try and write them down on separate pieces of paper. These are folded, marked with your initials to identify them, and mixed up. Then take turns drawing out one of the other's wishes, agreeing in advance to at least give it a try.  You can do it over several days or weeks, but just get 'em done!  

c) Get Frisky. Try Forfeit: One of you has to correctly guess what the other is miming and pay a forfeit if you get it wrong. For example, she may appear to be miming oral sex, but she's actually miming sucking his finger. If he doesn't guess correctly, he has to pay a forfeit -- such as removing an item of clothing or performing a sex act that pleases only her -- forfeiting his own needs.

3.  Trade IOUs.  Create coupon books for each other with favors, whether it’s for a homemade dinner or a foot massage. The offers expire February 14, 2016.

4.  Get Wet.  Take a bubble bath together, or, if you're lucky enough to live near a remote pond or lake (in a warm climate…no hypothermia, please!), go skinny-dipping by moonlight.

5.  Rent a Romantic Movie.  A low-key Valentine’s Day can be every bit as special as an expensive dinner and roses. The rule: Each of you gets to pick a sexy flick and can’t veto the other’s choice.

6.  Be a Cover Model.  Take silly paparazzi portraits of yourselves and make a mock-up tabloid cover using your movie star name.  Or take it up a notch and get naughty.  Become a centerfold model and pose provocatively for your partner.  Let them choose the pose and get extra points!

7.  Build a Fort.  You remember how to do it -- construct it out of couch cushions, blankets, and pillows in your living room. Then, turn that fort into a love cave.  Not easy to do in a hotel room, but you'll have fun trying it in your own home.

8.  Build a Fire.  Take turns reading aloud from a sexy book in front of the blaze. The catch: You can’t touch each other until you’re done reading. May I suggest one of my stories to enjoy?  *grin*  How’s that for getting a fire started?

9.  Play Some Nighttime Paintball.  You’ve got the whole day, but darkness adds an air of intrigue to the game, and the postgame shower is not to be taken alone.

10.  Give Each Other Erotic Massages.  My very favorite of all.  I even wrote a book about it.  Make sure your hands are warm and you have plenty of massage oils on hand. Get naked and take turns giving each other rubdowns. If a happy ending is in order, so be it!  A perfect way to end a Valentine's Day!!!

***Super Bonus Idea***

Spell it Out.  Write a sultry clue on the mirror in the morning when your sweetie is in the shower, like, “Meet me in the kitchen” -- then surprise your Valentine with two mimosas…and you in the buff.   A GREAT way to start this special day.

Hope you enjoyed all those ideas.  Have one to share?  Put it in the comments below!

I'll see you next week when I'll share something about Rio I find terrifying!!!

Hugs to all!

CJ England

 

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